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Old 4th August 2004, 9:48 PM   #1
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this is what up. I am physically attracted to my therapist at my chiropractic office I go to. (I had to say that so you didn't think I was mental or anything like that) Not only am I physically attracted to her I like being with around her and talking with her. I want to ask her out I just don't want to ask her out there in the office when I have an appointment, that just doesn't seem all the romantic. I want it to be romantic, but with a little bit of mystery to make it all that much better. I can tell she likes me to I can feel it inside that's why I want it to be perfect for us. All I know is her name and where she works. WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS! Lets make this fun and I will make sure I tell all of you how it comes out

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Old 4th August 2004, 10:24 PM   #2
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send her a note to her office?
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Old 4th August 2004, 10:35 PM   #3
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Eeep, sending something to her work can be touchy. Is there a way to get a business card of hers? perhaps there is a home # on it, or at least a direct line for her instead of talking to the front desk lady. Or, call the front desk and just ask if you can leave a voice mail for her. I wouldn't send stuff to her work just yet.
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Old 5th August 2004, 2:14 AM   #4
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Smile

Maybe you can send a nice arrangement of flowers to her work with a sweet card telling her that you like her and you would really like to take her out sometime. If I was her I wouldn't mind getting a nice bunch of flowers at my work, but if you think that would be a bad move, find out where she lives and send them to her house.
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Old 5th August 2004, 10:47 PM   #5
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unfortunate on my part I cann't get her by the phone. I don't think I should try, because from what I understand it's unethical on her part to get personal with her patients. I'm thinking sending her somthing with out my name on it might be the way to go. Also Im starting to look for a new Dr. to see. I like my Dr. but I can find new one, I want to sweep this girl of her feet shes worth it to me.
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Old 5th August 2004, 10:49 PM   #6
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I think it's farily common for patients undergoing therapy to have attraction for their therapists-you should discuss this with her.....
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Old 5th August 2004, 10:51 PM   #7
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Oh DUH

It's your CHIROPRACTOR

Sorry. Disregard above post.
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Old 5th August 2004, 11:19 PM   #8
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I want to sweep this girl of her feet shes worth it to me.
Aww, sweet
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Old 6th August 2004, 12:21 AM   #9
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honey2005,

Flowers are nice, Flowers are sweet, What else is there? I want to be different from the rest, I want the best, or is that the best. What do you think?
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Old 6th August 2004, 12:37 AM   #10
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Hmm...candies are pretty normal, a teddy bear, I dunno. I would go with flowers, though. You don't really know her all that well, and you don't know how she would react to it, so don't spend alot of money if nothing could come from it.
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Old 7th August 2004, 12:57 AM   #11
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Flowers sound like the best.

You think I should wait before I get a new dr or just go for it?
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Old 7th August 2004, 12:59 AM   #12
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How long will it take you to get a new doctor? Don't wait too long, you might miss your chance.
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Old 7th August 2004, 1:08 AM   #13
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I could find a doctor soon. Your right I shouldn't wait too long. I just don't want to make her feel uncomfortable in any why.
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Personally I would think it was really sweet to get a nice bouqet a flowers, it wouldn't freak me out at all.
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Old 7th August 2004, 1:30 AM   #15
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I hope she feels like you. I will do it this week. wish me luck... I will let you know how it turns out even if it's bad.
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