[SMF]

So my ex bf (I am 26 he is 29) spoke SOOO much about the future and our plans. Living together, weddings, rings, our ceremony, a place to live, our apartment, etc... and everything was going smooth and we both were so happy. BUT this boy NEVER EVER said that he loved me. NEVER.

Thats a red flag-? RIGHT?

[simplybrill]

YES. It is a BIG red flag. There's something fishy, if he cant even say the words. I would want someone that I was going to spend the rest of my life with, to be able to say it. Ask him about it, and if he freaks out in a bad way...seriously think about some things girly. Keep us posted


OH,,,BUT if he's your EX...and you guys arent getting married anymore, then thats good. In reference to your post, Yes that's a big red flag, especially when it comes around time to get married. You did the right thing if you broke it off.

[Mr Spock]

Well it depends, did he express his emotions in other ways? Some people just have difficulty verbalizing their emotions. I mean, he could have said it so frequently it lost all meaning......

Either way, he's your ex now So get out there and look for someone who WILL tell you how they feel.