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Old 2nd August 2004, 3:37 PM   #1
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(men only) If a man says dont contact him anymore, dont or is he playing games?

Just wondering, when guys say dont contact them anymore... is that because of the heat of the moment with breakup... or is that as serious as it sounds... hes a stubborn guy, not sure if he wants me to chase him anymore ... havent seen him in 3 months. know he still has some feelings for me , we were to get married.....
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Old 2nd August 2004, 3:42 PM   #2
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not sure if he wants me to chase him anymore ... havent seen him in 3 months.
You're kidding, Right?

Well, I am: Why not wait 3 years?
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Old 2nd August 2004, 4:07 PM   #3
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im confused... do you think I should contact him? or not?

I think we have both cooled off a bit... and could talk about what happened.... I dont know.. I just miss him.... and I guess I still love him.... I wish I didnt but I do....
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Old 2nd August 2004, 4:27 PM   #4
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In my experience, if a girl showed sincerity and seemed to really want to be with me... then I would most likely take her back if she showed one or two attempts to "win me back."

This is probably what you don't want to hear... but it's been 3 months now, you've done all you can to show that you still wanted to get back with him, and he's said no. I don't think he's just playing games anymore... I think you should move on now.
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Old 23rd November 2005, 12:58 PM   #5
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If he says that he ment it. Don't contact him unless you want to damage yourself emotionally, Because what happens when you call and he says "Why did you call I told you not too" all it is going to do is hurt you more. If he wants to talk to you he will call you, and when he does I would say " Uhhh why are you calling? I thought you told me not to talk to you anymore."
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Old 23rd November 2005, 1:07 PM   #6
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If he says that he ment it. Don't contact him unless you want to damage yourself emotionally, Because what happens when you call and he says "Why did you call I told you not too" all it is going to do is hurt you more. If he wants to talk to you he will call you, and when he does I would say " Uhhh why are you calling? I thought you told me not to talk to you anymore."
Hey NEWBIE (aka HORAKI)...this post is from the summer of 2004.
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Old 23rd November 2005, 1:36 PM   #7
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Oops guess I need to pay attention to dates =o, Dunno why I didn't see that.
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