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Old 26th July 2004, 9:53 AM   #1
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What should I do suggestions, advice please?

Hey everyone.

I have been dating this guys for about 2 months; we were casually friends but we had alot in common so our interest in each other grew. We have not had sex or slept together yet. We are both in our mid twenties. He is in the service and I am busy doing my own things working school , alot.
Anyways okay I really like this guy and he he seems to be a genuine gentleman, but again when something is too good to be true it usually is, right? And to top it all off we met online thats why we were casual at first;

See when we started dating I tool my profile off the site. I thought that is fair and honest . I'mean, even if its just casually seeing someone it's one guy at at time. Call me old fashioned. But the other day I was helping a friend of mine put a profile cause she thought hey since i met someone she could too, and guess who's profile is still online and it said viewed in the last 24 hrs. " Joe's" Now I understand we have only been seeing each other for 2months. And, he is still new to the area so he can still be meeting people. But see he has met my friends and my parents . and i am just concerned not jealous, that if a guy is interested then wouldn't he at least inform you that he is still online or just simply take his profile down"? There's no way that he can see that I ran into his profile but in the next week or so when he return home how should i be?, same as usual, confront him , i'm questioning myself?

I don't want to seem accusing of him but still i am somewhat "what's up" Does that make sense?

Thank you
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Old 26th July 2004, 10:17 AM   #2
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If the two of you are only casually dating and not exclusive, it's not wrong for him to still have his profile up and to date other women.
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