[michaeljones]

So theres this girl right, she seems clearly interested in me, well not clearly but I been around enough to know the signals. Problem is she seems so painfully shy towards me I'm not really sure what to do. She knows how I feel coz I have made it clear altough not to her face but she definatly knows.
Now this shyness only really come about when she started to connect with me on a deeper level, altoug soon as this happened she has totally backed off.
So i have two conclusions:

Firstly she isnt interested no more, if so thats no problem. it happens to us all. Altough that wouldnt make much sense.
Secondly shes scared of something, but I dont no what.
So Im at the point now where I really should call her or something but that cud backfire and scare her off even more. Maybe I should just be a man and jump right in, nothing to lose right?

Most people on here seem pretty wise so any advice?

[Fayebelle]

I am a totally confident young lady...until confronted by someone I'm attracted to. Then I start tripping myself and anyone in a 50 ft radius, stuttering, blushing, and otherwise feeling like it's my 1st day in my new skin. I don't know why- I just get SO nervous!

Eventually I do come around and hopefully he's still there. That's the most important part for you- PATIENCE. If you really think she likes you than just move slow and she will relax.

Trust me -we shy gals are pretty cool once you get to know us.

Good luck!

[SweetBee82]

Originally posted by michaeljones
So theres this girl right, she seems clearly interested in me, well not clearly but I been around enough to know the signals. Problem is she seems so painfully shy towards me I'm not really sure what to do. She knows how I feel coz I have made it clear altough not to her face but she definatly knows.
Now this shyness only really come about when she started to connect with me on a deeper level, altoug soon as this happened she has totally backed off.
So i have two conclusions:

Firstly she isnt interested no more, if so thats no problem. it happens to us all. Altough that wouldnt make much sense.
Secondly shes scared of something, but I dont no what.
So Im at the point now where I really should call her or something but that cud backfire and scare her off even more. Maybe I should just be a man and jump right in, nothing to lose right?

Most people on here seem pretty wise so any advice?

I think it could be the latter over the former. This happened with me and my current honey. I really did cared for him but I backed up for a while because I didn't want to get hurt just like what my ex-hub did. I would stick around but give her some space. Do spend time with her but don't push too hard or else she'll be more reclusive to be with you. It took me a while to finally open up with my BF and to be honest, it was worth the wait on both ends.

Hope that helps. Good luck!

[michaeljones]

okay I am going to wait for her but i think it could take a long time, but is it possible she may have suddenly just lost interest?
Its impossable to ask because i dont know her well enough.
Women are cool but they give me such a headache sometimes!!!!