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Old 23rd July 2004, 2:26 AM   #1
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the worst thing is the memories, they cut like knives, it seems like yesterday we were laying on the beach and talking about our futures, everything was perfect, life made sense, I had a reason to keep going but now nothing matters to me and I dont know how to get better, i cannot get over this
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Old 23rd July 2004, 3:09 AM   #2
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It takes time to get over a break up. Try to keep yourself busy and keep your mind off of her. The only thing that will really help you feel better is time.
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Old 23rd July 2004, 3:34 AM   #3
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yeah but the thing is, we havent broke up, its just that we have grown apart and she tells me that her love has faded away for me, but we havent broke up yet, i havent seen her in weeks, seperation is a horrible thing, and uncertainty is worse
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Old 23rd July 2004, 4:12 AM   #4
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hey..i been there, i know how it feels..when me and my ex *broke up*..we really didnt break up for over a month..and either way it stlll hurt..we didnt see each other, and i loved him sooooo much,. but he didnt love me. all i could think about was the memoriies..they hurt worse than anything..it was like a thousand bullets hitting all over my body..
but the only thing to do is just take time..time will heal...trust me
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