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Old 16th July 2004, 7:00 PM   #1
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Why won't he leave me alone?

I know I just posted something here, but I'm really frustrated and it's a different situation now. Well, now that I've mustered up the courage to dump this guy he WONT leave me alone! Last night (Thrusday 15th) I told him I might move to Salt Lake. He was really pissed off and upset because he knew it was because of him. It really pissed him off because he knew I didn't want to go because of my job and things going on at school. So he agreed to not bother me. And what does he do right after he leaves? He calls me 5 min later saying he can't deal with being apart from me. Then he calls me twice when he gets home at about 1am saying he can't deal with it. I told him to get some sleep and then get some help in the morning. I told him that I need my space and that I want to move on and I want him to move on. Last night when he called me the third time it almost sounded like suicide attempt. He suggested that he didn't know how careful he could be and that he was bummed no one was home. I didn't want to go over to his place because I want to move on and it was 1am so I was tired. On top of that I had things to do in the morning. Anyway, I called to check on him this morning and he was fine, so I told him "good luck" in hope that he would stop bothering me. WELL now he starts calling me again saying he's having a hard time, that he has no one else to talk to yadda yadda. I'm SOOO frustrated! Why won't he get it? Why can't he understand that I want him out of my life? I've tried to be blunt with him, and I've tried to show him that I'll do anything to just get away but he insists on calling me all the time whining about how bad his life sucks without me. I can't not answer my phone. The messages just get worse and worse. What the hell am I supposed to do? I'm so angry! He has done this before and it has gone on for weeks! One time he even wouldn't let me get any sleep and I almost went insane! Any advice? Anyone experiance this before?
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