[Shasta]

So, many of you possibly know about the LDR I have with the drag racing crew guy named Mike. Hehe, well this is just kind of an update for everyone. Well, I was going to go to Sonoma at the end of this month to see him while he is there with his racing team. He ended up quitting that team and went to work for Cory Mac's team. Since he left the other team, I cannot go to visit him because I would end up having to use the new team's facilities, and he isn't sure if they would be ok with that seeing as he hasn't been there but a week.

So, he told me last night that he's trying to see if he can get me to be with him for 3 weeks at the end of the season in October/November. He's going to talk to the crew chief and see if it's ok that I use their facilities and everything. I told him that it would be awesome, so he said he would go ahead and ask. Now, I've been having doubts that he wants to be in a relationship with me, so this is sending me signals that he really does want to have a relationship.

He tells me that he misses me and he thinks about me a lot, which really makes me feel better. I'm still not going to tell him that I would do anything to be with him. I was going to wait and see what happened in Sonoma before I started telling him stuff about how I think I love him, etc, etc. Obviously Sonoma isn't happening and I now have to wait 3 1/2 more months before I get to see him again. I'm thinking that if I do get to see him for 3 weeks, that sometime during those weeks, I need to tell him how I really feel about him. I just don't know how to go about bringing it up. Someone have any suggestions? I know it's kinda soon to be asking this, but I really just want to get opinions because I can't sleep.

[sportsloving]

I am glad that you will get to see him

Take things easy and don't stress about telling him how you feel. It will come out when it is the right time, spending a lot of time thinking about how to say it will only make you worry about it more and more. The first time I ever told my first ex husband I loved him was over a game of pool and I was really sucking, it just came out .

And yeah, if the guy is making plans to spend three weeks with you, it's a pretty sure thing that he is interested in your relationship! Good luck to you