What would be some good conversational topics on a get-together with a girl for the first date. I usually just let the talk about anything cuz that is what they like to do, but I want good topics to steer the conversation ( not to were I want it to go, just to keep things moving and to keep me from carring the conversations) Any ideas, ladies, if you can think about the things that you were really glad a guy has asked you on a date what would they be, and what are things you don't feel comfortable being asked or just not talking about them at the time.
I have some ideas of the things the girl I am going out with likes: she studies biology, she like rubins (sandwiches I think), she works at a lumber store, rides her bike like everywere and she works out all the time like 3-5 days a week. Very cute (that is what I think and that is what matters), hmmm. That all I can think about right now.
I don't really think there are any set rules,you know,just see how things go. You may end up talking to her and get on a subject and then the conversation just flows so naturally that you talk for hours. If there are gaps then maybe talk about her job, her workout schedule,her studies,etc. We(women like to talk about ourselves)
Tell her about yourself too.
Oh and I'm sure you wouldn't but in case,don't ask about past sexual experience,that comes later,for most anyway.
good luck!
JEN
Breast Implants and kinky sex are always a good topic. Sure makes as a good ice breaker. I get all my women in bed after a night of conversational goodness. Hope it works out!
I don't know, DBD, but on my first dates (and I have alot of them for some reason) I usually talk about my scheduled penile reduction surgery and how my 2 week marriage to my 16 year old first cousin didn't work out.
The worst first date conversation would have to be one about religion.
I spent over two hours once bored out of mind while this zealous christian tried to convert me and save my soul from damnation. ugh
Like another poster said, things will hopefully flow naturally. You can still have a couple back ups though. Try convos on music, recent movies, favorite movies, what you'd like to accomplish before the summer's over, concerts, stuff like that. Definitely DO let her talk about herself. Yes, us women like this.
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