[CurlyIam]

I have seen a few posts and I started thinking that maybe it's me living in my own fantasy world... So I've had one ong r'ship and ended up all alone, with no friends, no hobby, no nothing except for some great opportunities of a career.

I under no circumstance want to make a career out of my family. I want to be able to preserve my hobbies, my friends, the time for myself and my lover.


I don't want to make the same mistake and put all my time and effort in a relationship. I don't want my bf suffocated by me and by my constant attention. Not now, not later. I just hate it when women do this.



Ok, this is the fanasy world! you,girls, in the real world, how do you make it? [color=darkblue]Do you still see your friends, do you still preserve your male friends, how do you keep your independence? What's your "statement"? [/color]I mean, this is seclusion because of our gender!!!! And you know what? WE, it's us, the WOMEN, instating it! Maybe in the US is different, back in my own coutry it's reality!!!!