I have 3 year relationship with someone I love. I cheated on her during the early part of our relationship. I stopped the affair long before she suspected but continued a friendship with the other woman. When my girlfriend asked if I had ever been intimate with her I lied and said that we were just friends. Nothing more.
My girlfriend wasn't convinced and decided to write an email to the other introducing herself and asking her what her relationship was with me.
My girlfriend was very heartbroken when she got the reply and even then I continued to discount what the other had said and continued to maintain that she was just a friend. I also told my girl that she did want something serious at what time but I told her that I just wanted to be friends.
I finally told her the truth when asked about the other woman again just recently. My love asked me to move out because she needed space to sort things and it just wouldn't happen if I was still there. So I did.
Now I am trying to win her heart and hand but I am not doing so well. I have not repeated the mistake but I am agonizing over not being with her and kept at arm's distance. I believe she is now dating other guys.
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