[Whisper]

My boyfriend of a year broke up with me a couple of weeks ago.

He says that he still enjoyed time with me but that he wanted to be with someone who matched his personalitly more. That he thinks common interests and what not are important. Dont get me wrong, we got along great and hardly ever faught. There was NOTHING wrong with the relationship, he said he just didnt want it anymore.

He says he still loves me. And then he claims its only as a friend. But that he loves me so much as a close friend.

I went over to his house yesterday and he put his arms around me and we kind of just layed there for a while. Then one thing led to another and he kissed me. We didnt have sex, but we came very close.

I left and talked to him later and he said he really really didnt want to do that. That he still wants me very much physically and somewhat emotionally, but it's not going to happen because he wont allow it.

He said some of him wants to get back together. But he just wont allow himself to do it. He says he knows the relationship would work, but he just doesn't want it anymore.

I'm so confused. Our break up was very sudden and unexpected. I want him back very badly. But nothing I say is going to change his mind. Nothing.

*pulls hair out*

[princess75]

No matter how much pain there is currently ...concentrate on other stuff. To all this how old are you guys? IT seems he is not ready to keep on going in the relationship, you will have to respect his decision.
Hey, if you leave now, there will be possibility in the future, if you force him to be with you, he will be so; only half terms...just for the sake of it. Let him spend his time alone, once he is ready ...if he comes back to you he was yours; otherwise he never was. Please step out, and give him his space. Then maybe it will work out.