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Old 15th June 2004, 4:19 PM   #1
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Unhappy Should the word "slut" even be in a friend's vocabulary?

Would a true friend ever call another friend a slut?
I have two friends that have not been getting along too well lately.
One friend, I'll call her "Jane" keeps calling my other friend (I'll call her "Sara")
a slut ~ to her face. To me, slut is a VERY harsh word.
Jane not only called Sara a slut once, but she keeps calling her that over, and over, and over.....and at work too in front of everybody!!!
Personally, I think both of them should GROW UP (they are both in their 30's) and just talk it out. They work at the same place, and have to see each other practically every day, and that doesn't help matters.
They have tried to pull me into this by calling me up and telling me what the other one did/said. I told them to leave me out of it!!!
Sure, Jane doesn't agree with Sara's lifestyle, but she doesn't have to keep on and on and on about it. I fear that their friendship will be over soon if this isn't resolved. They have been friends for years, and it would be a shame for a friendship that has lasted so long to end.
Jane did confide in me that the only reason she keeps lecturing Sara and calling her a slut is to make her so mad that she sees what a mistake she's making by the choices she makes. But there are other ways to do that.....calling someone a slut is like a slap in the face!!! And by someone you considered a good friend too makes it worse!!!
I just had to get that off my chest. Anyone got any comments?
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