[agnf666]

So, about a week ago me and my exboyfriend broke up. It was kindof a mutual thing. I wrote him a letter about how I feel about certain things in our relationship. He got it and asked me what I meant by it all , I said it was how I had been feeling for a while. He told me that he is too busy to be in with someone right now, considering he works 60 to 65 hr. weeks. There is no time for us to talk or see each other. So, I agreed apond all that. I was upset considering in 11 days it would have been 3 months since we been together, I actually think I fell in love with him. The last thing he said to me was "Now since we are offically broke up, Don't do anything stupid!" He knows me well, so suicide would not be the answer to that. I kindaof was wondering if anyone would lead me in the right direction with that. I'm completely lost. He told me he still wants to be friends, and told me not to stop talking to him. So, I called him yesterday his cell just rang and rang, which was probably way to early considering we broke up june 1. I want to get back with him, I think we will since our break up wasn't that bad. I heard he was upset about the whole think.

[Paradise]

Personally being friends after break up is a bad idea. It's either break up and break off all ties or stay together. It's up to you to try to work things out if you still love him, but just remember he has to feel the same way as you do.

[agnf666]

I don't know, I not even sure I was in love with him. He treated me like ****. Like he would never call me in the first place so I don't even know why I would even think about getting back together with him. I'm just confused. In a way the no contact thing would be great, but in another I really would like to keep intouch with him. The way we met each other was wierd, but if the distance between us wasn't all that far it would have worked. The fact that I don't drive has a little bit to do with all of this. He just got tired of driving up my house all the time, and if some one likes you they will almost do anything for you. I was slowly losing interest in him anyway. So, maybe it is a good thing we broke up. Who knows.