[HurtinginVA]

Ok. He called at 945 saying he would call when he got out of church. Its now been 3 hours. Church cant possibly last that long. Should I call him???? What should I say??

[shamen]

OK, he hasn't called. I wouldn't call him. The ball truly is in his court. If you call him, it's just going to make you feel weak.

He told you that he would call you. He's the one that broke it off with you. Why should you put yourself out there like that?

[moimeme]

There are some sects who have half-day marathons for church. It is he who, having promised to call, ought to call. Someone recently posted saying she knew some men who deliberately don't call when they promise to see if the person they were supposed to call 'cares enough' to call and check on them. I'd hope you're not dealing with soeone who'd play that sort of game. Bottom line - go out and do your thing - and the next time (if there is one) that he says he'll call, ask him for an approximate time to expect his call.