Hi, as a man I am wondering if the size of the woman's vaginal lips an indicator of lots of sexual activity? Are there supposed to be lips? If so, aren't they supposed to be very small? I have been thinking that if a girl has vaginal lips that are noticeable or can be pulled down then that must mean she is promiscuous. I think my girlfriend must be a sl*t because of this and she says no and that it is mostly genetics and taht all women are different but I bet if you saw a virgin it wouldn't be like that. She tried to show me pictures on the internet but they all had vaginal lips but I think that is just because they have been used a lot and so I don't believe that. We tried to look at just normal women but couldn't find any such sites. Does anyone know anything about this? I don't want to date her if she has been around and I think that is a tell tale sign when the lips stick out. Help please, I tried to find a board about sex but didn't see it on the main community forums list so even if you could redirect me that would be great because this is troubling. The lips bunch up a little and I can pull on them and stretch out an inch or so. Please, this is something that I am curious about.
so you dont trust her? then why are you sleeping with her anyway? But thats stupid, I dont think it has to do with how many people you sleep with.. every bodys different.
Hi, as a man I am wondering if the size of the woman's vaginal lips an indicator of lots of sexual activity?
No.
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Are there supposed to be lips?
Yes. Inner and outer lips. Which of your girlfriends vaginal lips are you having an issue with?
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I have been thinking that if a girl has vaginal lips that are noticeable or can be pulled down then that must mean she is promiscuous. I think my girlfriend must be a sl*t
Your poor girlfriend. Have you ever been with a woman before? How old are you?
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she says no and that it is mostly genetics
She's correct.
Some women have inner labia (lips) that are larger than their outer lips. They may even stick out from between the outer lips. Every woman's vulva is made up of the same parts, but each one looks different!
The outer lips are two folds of skin and fatty tissue. After puberty, they are usually covered with pubic hair. They can be large or small, short or long, and even two different sizes. This is all normal and part of what makes us each unique.
The inner lips are also sensitive and can swell up when a woman is aroused. These are the folds of skin that go from the clitoral hood to below the vagina. Some people think they look like wings or flower petals. The inner lips may vary in color from pink to brownish black, depending on the color of a woman's skin, and they may be wrinkled or smooth. Like nipples, the inner lips may change color as women mature.
So, by your logic, the men who have the most sex must have the biggest penises, and the more sex they have, the bigger their penii will get, right?
Dude, you are so far out in left field, you can't be seen with Hubble. Please drop your girlfriend. She doesn't need someone who would believe something so foolish. Oh, and I have a couple nice lake properties in the Sahara to sell you.
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Originally posted by DerangedAngel She's right, Guest. Actually, so is average guy. It doesn't seem like you're... mature enough for a relationship right now.
Good luck whatever you decide. I doubt you'll listen to us.
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Either way, misconceptions and incorrect assumptions are dangerous in any relationship. There is no way to determine one's lifestyle by the physiology of one's genitals. Never make assumptions about anyone. Remember the old cliche about what happens when one assumes, cuz.
Originally posted by GuestGuest
Hi, as a man I am wondering if the size of the woman's vaginal lips an indicator of lots of sexual activity? Are there supposed to be lips? If so, aren't they supposed to be very small? I have been thinking that if a girl has vaginal lips that are noticeable or can be pulled down then that must mean she is promiscuous. I think my girlfriend must be a sl*t because of this and she says no and that it is mostly genetics and taht all women are different but I bet if you saw a virgin it wouldn't be like that. She tried to show me pictures on the internet but they all had vaginal lips but I think that is just because they have been used a lot and so I don't believe that. We tried to look at just normal women but couldn't find any such sites. Does anyone know anything about this? I don't want to date her if she has been around and I think that is a tell tale sign when the lips stick out. Help please, I tried to find a board about sex but didn't see it on the main community forums list so even if you could redirect me that would be great because this is troubling. The lips bunch up a little and I can pull on them and stretch out an inch or so. Please, this is something that I am curious about.
This should be good evidence for the "how young to teach your child about sex" thread. Your girlfriend's truly a keeper, not only does she let you pull/stretch about an inch or so, she actually browses porn to prove a point to you.
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Originally posted by moimeme
Dude, you are so far out in left field, you can't be seen with Hubble.
Leave it to a woman to mix space references with sports ones.
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Originally posted by paradyme
emember the old cliche about what happens when one assumes, cuz.
When you assume, you make an ass out of you and me (ass u me).
I know you knew that, but for some reason, I felt this guy needed spelling out.
Moimeme, your post was the one I enjoyed most since I registered to loveshack.
GuestGuest, lips come in various size, from very big to almost non-exixtent.
Their size or shape is not related to sexual activity.
Otherwise it would be hard to explain why many porn stars have small lips, wouldn't it?
You browes the web looking at hundreds of diffrent looking lips...but you still want to see a pic of "normal" lips? Maybe some of those 100s ARE normal. And no I dont think you should be with her if you dont trust her. I would NEVER be with a guy who didnt beilve me when I told him about my past. She deserves better.
And again i say how old are you...bc you sound pretty immature and maybe you shouldnt be havbing sex to being with.
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She's right, Guest. Actually, so is average guy. It doesn't seem like you're... mature enough for a relationship right now.
Leave it to a woman to mix space references with sports ones. 
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