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Yikes! I got myself into a bind with two guys: What should I do?
I belong to this social club that has Friday night dinners every week and there are two guys there interested in me. THe first one used to be my boyfriend for a very brief period last year... Just recently he started showing interest in me and so did this other guy that also goes there regularly.
I thought I could rekindle some feelings for my Ex, so I went to his place twice and spent some time with him intimately, but we didn't have sex even though he wanted it. Meanwhile the other guy asked me out on a date and I went out with him last week and really liked it. We "dry humped" afterwards at his place.
Well yesterday I called my ex to give him some information on a travel agency he had asked me about and NOT expecting him to be at home (I was only planning on leaving him a message as I was sure he was at work) he answered and told me he was free and asked if I wanted to come over last night. I made up some excuse that I couldn't, but maybe I could come another time. Actually last night I had another date with the other man which ended up in us having sex (we used protection) at his place. I really enjoyed it.
Anyhow, this morning I get a message from my ex asking if I am going to the dinner tonight because afterwards he is free because his daughter is not coming over. I don't know if the other man will come to this dinner tonight because he is really busy with work (building), but if I show up and BOTH of them are there I will feel very awkward!!
What should I do? I feel very guilty about having given hope to the ex because it is so clear that I am more physically attracted to the other man even though I know my ex better and have more to talk about with him.
WHAT SHOULD I DO??
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