Hi, I was wondering if anyone ever went through this before? Has anyone ever had an intuition that something was going on with your H or s/o even though you didn't have actual proof yet, but you knew something wasn't right. During this time you started doubting your intuition about it? Did anyone ever find themselves asking questions such as: "What am I thinking? He wouldn't do that to me". Or, "I'm being silly, or overly paranoid." I'm finding that I'm doing that alot here lately. Just wondering if anyone else has done that too.

[moimeme]

I can usually tell when I'm being lied to. My intuition starts screaming at me. I have sometimes tried to ignore it and talk it out of screaming at me, but it doesn't work and, inevitably, the intuition's right.

Hi thanks for your reply. You're right, mine has been screaming at me for sometime now. Even though I don't have actual proof yet, I just find myselfing question my intution. Hopefully I will find out for sure and be able to deal with whatever it is that is happening. Thanks again.

[Layla]

can you specify what your intuition is telling you? Are you afraid that your husband is being unfaithful?

Hi Layla, some things going on that has my intuiton up are lying about the things hes looking at on the internet, (which I have proof on that one) and excesive amounts of alcohol that he hasn't done before, until here about a few months ago.

Cell phone numbers that are womens. Places he has been that they have no record of him being at. Doing buisness with a woman about some of our finances when asked some questions about her, he all of a sudden wants to drop doing buisness with her after wanting to deal with that particular company for awhile. Blaming me or making false accusations against me for no reason. He has become alot more angry and has a temper, never had one like that before. Those are some of the things going on.

i don't know what to think anymore. Alot of people say go with your gut feeling, and even though that maybe the case, don't know why I start doubting that. Maybe I'm in denial. thanks for your reply.

[CurlyIam]

Before putting all your trust in your intuition, be sure to give a good look at your current state of mind or of emotion. If you're under a lot of stress you'll see more things going wrong! If he's under a lot of stress he maybe acting weird. Bu sure to anayse things carefully before jumping to conclusions.

Just don't assume the worst from the begginig. Check up on things to be sure, but don't be gathering "evidence". You'll find it easier to live with this if you start with the presumtion of "innocent". Plus you don't risk someone's friendship or love!