O.K., where do i begin?

I met this guy. He lives about 10 minutes away from me. I decided to meet him at this ice cream place to follow him to his house, to see where he lived.

Oh yeah ... I'm 16, he's 17. Anyhoo, we went to his house and we were sitting there talkin', messin' around, jokin' with each other, and then we kissed. It just continued, and we ended up in his room. I had sex with him

I don't know what got into me. I hardly know him, and it was wierd. I like him, but I lost my virginity to him, and I don't know what to think. I alway convinced myself I wouldn't have sex 'till I was with the right guy or I was married. It was like "in the moment" or something.

I don't regret it, but I'm confused ... I dont know. Me freakin' out about it is ruinin' our chance of actually bein' together later, 'cuz it's makin' him worried that I'm worried. I really dunno ... someone help me out here ...

[pupit]

Don't worry, it happened to many of us (Women). When I lost my, it was like a blink of an eye, I did not know this guy, but something got into me and I did it. Do not feel weird. Think about it like, you have lost something that you can not get back. Talk to him if you like him, tell him how you feel about him and get it over with. But remember "do not tell him that, you love him" It will scare him away. Tell him you like him "If you do like him".
Anyway "Does he know's it was your first?".


hope this helps

[faux]

What happened happened, and cannot be changed. What I would recommend you do, however, is not to put yourself into risky situations like this in the future. I understand perfectly how situations can be overwhelming, and you end up doing things you never thought you would.

Keep in mind, however, that if you know better than to meet someone alone that you do not know, and you know better than to go with them alone somewhere, you will not get into such situations. I am not intending to make you feel guilty, as believe me I have been in similar situations. It will be difficult for you to transition after what happened with you, and your hopes for a relationship may be totally shot with this guy because of the events which transpired.

Just be sure in the future to stay away from situations that could lead to this type of outcome, and best of luck to you. I certainily hope you used protection, and used it properly. Even though I lost my virginity at an earlier age, I still think that 16 and 17 is quite young to be engaging in sexual activities.

[Ashleym]

This is just something you are going to have to deal with. If you didn't want to do it then you wouldn't have done it. I lost my virginity when I was 13 years old. Now that I am older I wish that I would have waited. But some things you can never change. If you would have wanted to wait, then you would have waited.