[effee]

Why do I still care?

Its been almost 2 months since I broke up with my ex girlfriend, it was a short relationship, barely 2 months. I broke up with her when I saw her holding hands with her ex boyfriend of 4 years.

So today and yesterday I was supposed to follow her somewhere(she asked me to) and then she cancelled it at the last minute, I had the feeling she was lying to me so I asked a co-worker to check if she was at work, she wasn't. So I'm thinking she lied to me, asked me to follow her somewhere when she didn't even have the intention of going with me in the first place. And she didn't show up at work today because she was at that occasion with someone else, thats what I'm thinking...

Now I know I shouldn't care, because I've broken up with her and we're nothing but friends right now, but still it hurts to think that she's still lying to me, if she didn't want to go with me she could have just told me that she didn't want to go with me and I would have understood perfectly.

Why do I still care about her, what she does, whether she calls me, or if she texts me? I telling myself, that its been 2 months, I've gotten over her, but deep down inside, have I really forgotten her? I don't want to love her anymore, but have I really let her go? I'm just so confused.

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Originally posted by effee
if she didn't want to go with me she could have just told me that she didn't want to go with me and I would have understood perfectly.

you're right in saying that. she could have called to inform you but she didnt because she's selfish, cold-hearted and probably was planning to use your company if her first choice of companion didnt show up.... you were her back up plan.

sorry to sound so mean but you have to realise that it's over. you wanna know why you still care? it's because the injustice was done to you when you were offguard and completely in love with her.

she's dishonest, she's been seeing her ex behind your back, most likely doing more than just holding his hands and she does not deserve you.

I'd say cease all contact with her, no matter how painful it is to let go of her, it will be more painful if you hold on like this. you can do better for yourself. you are wasting your precious time, missing her for what? you could be out there meeting more wonderful girls and potentially finding someone more deserving.

and I will.... MEN OF THE WORLD UNITE AND TAKE OVER!

What has happened to you>? Are you serious? Have you lost all self respect?
She lied to you.... not once, not twice...... Here's my advice...... you go into a relationship... be it friends, bf, gf etc.... you go in with 100% and giving 100% trust..... if that percent slips to 99% IT IS OVER!

PEOPLE we have to realize that we have to put our foot down when we have to........ if a dog senses fear, he will bite you! Well if a person realizes that you are weak....... it will come back to bite you!

My friend... forfeit all contact with her.

You've been warned.