[curiousboi001]

my friend has a really serious dilemma. His gf and him have been going for 11 months and today they had the biggest fight ever. she sed shell change the person she is but she broke her promises to change and he flipped out and got really angry. The thing is, everytime he breaks up, she threatens to kill herself and he ends up going back to her. He loves her tho but he hates thinking that hes trapped like this. This girl is really suicidal and i think itll be safe to believe that shell kill her self.. ne suggestions will help. I really dont want her to hurt herself. Thanx

[shamen]

If you are in high school, you need to talk to a teacher, a counselor, someone ASAP!!!!! She needs to get into counseling.

If not, you need to get a friend over there tonight if you really believe this is going to happen today.

Someone needs to talk to her parents and let them know that she is talking about this. Yeah, it might suck having to tell the parents, but it's better than her killing herself. Obviously someone who knows the parents would be a better choice.

Again, if you are out of HS, then dealing with friends to intervene is just as useful. Get a girlfriend of hers to call her and go over there; have her call a suicide hotline.

Doing nothing is the worst thing you can do.

The bf may need to help get her into counseling, but he should not feel obligated to stay in the relationship because of this. The intervening right now is the most important step.