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Old 19th May 2004, 3:02 PM   #1
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Unhappy after finally leaving my ex, new boyfriend reunites with his

After 5 years of an abusive relationship I finally left my ex-boyfriend and went to be with another man, whom I truly cared about with all my heart.

Recently my new boyfriend decided although he loved me, he needed to go back to his ex-girlfriend because she was holding his little girl from him. It took so much for me to do what I did, and although this gave me the confidence that I never had before. I think he is dependent on her financially, she makes more money that he does and he has horrible credit and no car. Well, I guess I don't really want a scrub like that anywayz? Any idea on how to get my smile back????

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Old 20th May 2004, 1:37 PM   #2
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Old 21st May 2004, 10:03 AM   #3
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Although that usually brings my smile back, I have struck out on my own for the first time ever and finally have my own apartment and all my own bills too, eeeeek!!! Can't afford it like I used too!!!! LOL Any other suggestions
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Old 24th May 2004, 3:27 AM   #4
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Old 24th May 2004, 3:51 AM   #5
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Join an Interpersonal Relationship Forum (oh wait, you have) and laugh at the given advice and/or pregnancy and porn threads. Worked for me.

Or you could go clubbing, yeah.

Cheers and smiles to you.

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Old 24th May 2004, 10:15 AM   #6
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LOL Good idea guys actually I am going out tonight
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