[effee]

Awhile ago I posted here on the breakup between me and my girlfriend, she had 2 timed me and I found out, now 1 month later, we are good friends again and the feelings from our old relationship has not died down. I know she has a current boyfriend, but I'm sure if I ask her to come back she will come back to me..

Anyway, I was thinking of going back to her, I know its bad, my head is telling me not to, but my heart is telling me to go back to her, she's like a drug, I know its bad for me but I just can't get enough. I'm even prepared to ignore the fact that she currently has a boyfriend although she isn't very close to him at the moment.

Need some advice, to listen to my head or my heart?



So I was just wondering, has anyone else been two timed and managed to patch up? Did it affect you're relationship and did things work out for you after the patch? I'm so confused, I'm prepared to go through all this pain just to have her back, even though I know she has a boyfriend and would probably two time him for me.. even tho I know I wont be the only one I'm still prepared to love her..]


So what do you think? Go with what I'm feeling or listen to my head.

[Pyrannaste]

Originally posted by effee

she had 2 timed me and I found out,

This is bad.

I know she has a current boyfriend

This is also bad.

she's like a drug, I know its bad for me but I just can't get enough

This is *really* bad.

I'm prepared to go through all this pain just to have her back, even though I know she has a boyfriend and would probably two time him for me..

This is worse.

So what do you think? Go with what I'm feeling or listen to my head.

Please listen to your head. Your head knows better. *Really*.

[hurtingandconfused]

she's like a drug

It's time to kick the habit. Even heroin addicts recover from their drug addiction. As you know they sometimes have the urge to go back to it, but they do not. And if they decide to go back to the drug they live a miserable life, only because the drug that was killing them, finished them off.

Once a cheater always a cheater.

[dudesomewhere]

I always say, heart or smarts...you see the simplicity? Your heart can sometimes be boundless and too forgiving whereas many times your smarts, based off of common sense and sometimes intuition is what strives to protect you.

You have to ask yourself if you are willing to be hurt again or simply not.

[effee]

A song said, " dont let you're head rule you're heart"

now i'm pondering over that lyrics..I really really am so confused.

[overseas2004]

There is a wise saying in my country. When falling in love one should use their head and their heart. Meaning ...don't let your feelings advance beyond where you know reason should not let it go.

This girl is obviously not for you. She has cheated twice??? You have been apart only one month and she already has another guy????

Your head should say "no way" and your heart should say "how could I love you so much when you hurt me that much".

Good luck... but don't go back. It will end later with much more pain and attachment on your part only.