[soserious1]

It's come to my attention that immediately prior to having sex with me,my lover feels the need to get himself in the mood by looking at porn,naked chic pics on the web.

I don't care if he looks at such things but I'd prefer it if he didn't then trot in waving his woodie at me like he's doing me some sort of favor.Why can't he finish off the way he started?

There's nothing worse than the feeling that you've just beeen treated to obligatory,mercy sex.

[average guy]

Why don't you just tell him to go back and finish himself off?

[soserious1]

Originally posted by average guy
Why don't you just tell him to go back and finish himself off?

Lol,I did,he seemed to have a problem with that idea for some reason

[average guy]

Tell him porno is for masturbating and women are for lovemaking!

[Pyrannaste]

Soserious, I'd feel the same way you do in your situation. or even worse.
I advise you tell him how you feel about it, because he might not even be aware about how you feel, and he might have no idea he is hurting/offending you.
Or did you already and he went on with acting this way?

[HokeyReligions]

IF he cannot achieve or maintain an erection without pornography -- especially with foreplay -- then he may have some serious problems for which thereapy and a physical exam are needed.

Otherwise, tell him that your feelings are hurt and that you don't want sex that way because it cheapens it for you and is not satisfying. If he can't respect that, then move on to someone who does not need anyone but you.