[effee]

I blame myself..If I had only loved her more..If circumstances were different..She would still be here.. But on the other hand, I'm not too sure..Maybe it was her, she just hadn't let go and moved on from her past relationship..I don't know..I guess it wasn't really meant to be and really neither of our faults.

[Tony T]

I'd say it wasn't really meant to be and you need to do a better job of moving forward with relationships that are healthy. Doing so starts with a very cold shower, very open eyes, a very alert mind, and an absolute goal of moving slowly. Once you fall big time very quickly and lose all objectivity, you open yourself up big time for pain and hurt. Your emotions have no eyes or ears, they only feel. Emotions combined with good common sense and thoughtful action is a combination that can't be beat when it comes to romance.

[sportsloving]

Why does anyone have to be at blame for the ending of a relationship? Some things just don't work out how we want or hope. Doesn't mean anyone has to be the one taking the fault.

[sinkerswim]

I blame myself for acting all paranoid all the time..but I couldnt help it, I have OCD..
If only I didnt go out with my friends those last few Saturday nights..maybe he thought I didnt love him anymore..
But he wasnt perfect either...but we never cheated on each other or did anything horrible to each other. We were together 8 solid years with no major problems. He was my other half.
I just have sooooo many unanswered questions. He just left me hanging.


I could never be mad at him for some reason..I love him too much.
Im just very disapointed in him for leaving me hanging. Why did he do this to me?

God..I never saw this coming.

[UCFKevin]

For the initial break up, me. Or, as it was, a "break."

But for her not being willing to work things out and being such a brickwall about things, her.

So both.

[sinkerswim]

Thats exactly how I feel Kevin...
My fiance couldnt even sit down and talk to me about anything.
He just wanted "space and some time away"

[UCFKevin]

Yeah. That's generally how it goes.

I think at that point, if there's no communication, no trying on their part, it's doomed.

[sinkerswim]

Yes..you are right...
He always did bottle up his emotions....

Anyway...I hope you are having an awesome time in LA!
you deserve it!

[UCFKevin]

So far so good here.

[sinkerswim]

Good for you!
PS: You look like Ben Affleck in that picture!!

[MESO]

I am currently in a "break"...im no idiot and i kno that most likely where this is headed but,

me and her still talk and see eachother once in a while but would "no Comminication" be the same as her saying "i dont know im confused right now" every time i ask her an important question

becasue thats all im getting from her...

[UCFKevin]

Pretty much, because that's what you're getting, when you think about it. You should cut off all contact.