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My husband got married to a second wife
I am separated from my husband since I found out he married another woman recently. I think it is difficult to understand but I still love him very much and I want our marriage to work. At the same time, I feel hate towards what he has done. We have three small children, all below 6 years old. He doesn't give any money to buy food or pay for our eldest son school fees. Even when we were still living together, he hardly every gives any money, and when he deos, he usually ask for them back. He says he loves me and the kids. He hardly makes love to me, ignores the kids and at one time even told me to find someone else to sleep with.
I am confused. What is the hope for such a marriage? I recently found myself work and that helps with my expenditure and the kids. We are slowly moving ahead with life and I find myself sleeping better at night than all the time when we were still together. But I am afraid to go to court and file for an annulment. I am afraid he will take the kids away from me. He said he wouldn't but I had enough of all his lies. He might be lying about that also. so I just carry on like I am married while more and more people are telling me that he has been seen around town with his new wife and child. I am so embarassed.
The kids are the only ones important for me and keeping me sane right now. I want us together. He can go on living his life somewhere else, just as long as I have the kids with me. I want to work at our marriage, but he said I should accept him as he is if our marriage is to be saved. But I feel so unloved by him. I want to be cared for, I want a husband who is available not someone who is out all the time.
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