[butterfly33]

i typed my whole story and it never posted, so i am just going
to do a summary.
I dated someone for two months. Fell really hard for this person.
mostly because I am almost 30 with no kids, he's 27 no kids,
it felt like we knew each other forever, like we have been friends always,
had so many things in common, from really big things like family values
to how our favorite tv shows. he gave me back some dreams i had
given up on by making little comments here and there about how if things
would work out he would want to marry me, little insinuations.
i felt like he was my friend. Like i said, i'm almost 30 so i feel like i can
tell when someone is being sincere, and it felt like he was.
well, we slept with each other after dating two months, and when we
were together he asked me if it would just be me and him, that it was no
one else, just us, and i said yes. well, its been a week since then and he
hasnt called.
i think he got afraid but why wouldnt he talk to me.
i feel hurt and as if my judgement is terribly wrong.
i trusted him and every time i wake up he's on my mind.
i got really close to him really fast, and now he's dissapeared.
either he got scared or played me, i dont understand.
why would he treat me so good and spend so much time together
and why would he say all those things, just 4 a piece of ___?

[moimeme]

Call him. Ask him. Don't just hang there and wait.

[butterfly33]

well, i didnt want to call because i called once and left a
message, i already know that he wont pick up if he doesnt
call u back.
so i text messaged him and surprisingly enough he did answer
but he gave me a whole lot of lies, things to get me to stop
talking to him.
i was sad and my friend told me i should get out to forget,
i said, no because i'm afraid i'll run into him, so he suggested
i go somewhere where i have never been to get my mind
off him.
so i called my friend and go somewhere new. well, i ran into
him. yes, it always happens. last time i stopped talking to him
i ran into him 3 days in a row. it was horrible. so his brother
and sister in law talked to me and they tell me that his excuse
were not true. so i couldnt take it, he came up to me and
shook my hand, and i couldnt believe he had the nerve to talk
to me, i got teary eyed and told everyone i had to go. so me
and my friend left them and went somewhere else. i went
somewhere where i know he doesnt like going, and what a
surprise he shows up! oh yeah. so this time i couldnt contain
myself and i confronted him and he told me his real reason 4
leaving me. so even tho we said we are going to stay friends,
i feel really happy that i know the truth.
and thats what happened.

[winterwonderland]

Did you know that there are actually guys out there that love, love? YOu know they like to make love, feel love, treat there girls very well so they can also experience what he is. But, in a silly twist they dont want the rest of it or are to scared to want to try to have the rest of it. So, when he is done playing house or husband or whatever you call it. He walks until he finds another victim so his heart can feel loved again. Funny but I think they call theses guys players. And what is really cute about all this is .....when he leaves the woman he is with he makes sure she is in a position where she calls and begs him back making him feel more loved than ever since he has a new gf... a new love...and an old love all begging for his attention. Cool huh.

[CurlyIam]

I just don't get this... I mean he wants to have sex, right? There are lots of women who maybe want the same thing. Why lie, why do this? It is... so disgusting!!!!!!!!! I'm sure he can "solve" his little problem without making such a mess. Especially since his family is acquainted to you...

So I'm concluding that he's not able to have sex with a woman unless he lies. That's pathetic!

Admit you were wrong about him, so move on fast! No one has enough experience to see this kind of things coming... I thing those like him smell vulnerable wome, they pray upon them and who knows, maybe even like to watch the hurt. This is even more pathetic...

Cheer up, go out and celebrate the chances you got to "run" into him and find out the truth! I hope at least he was a good lay and it was not a complete waste of time !