[confused33]

Hi everybody just one question. Can men and married women be friends? My wife has a habit of having guy friends at work and hides it, she says it is none of my business and she doesn't tell me because i will get mad at her.Says there just friends and play games on the computer at work, when i asked her why i haven't met the guy she says because i will start trouble, not true but when i tell her i will be there at lunch to meet him she says ok then about 3 hours before lunch she calls and says her lunch has changed and i wont be able to meet him. I dont know what to do ,she keeps telling me i'm a big baby and don't trust her andd i'm just jealous.