[evilflow]

Is two years of dating too soon to start living together?

I know that there are different relationships out there where two years might be too soon or too long to move in together, but over the last couple of months my girlfriend and I had discussed marriage and starting a family.... A LOT; so that might give you an idea of where our relationship was at.

If I ask her to start living together, what should I do if she says no? To be honest with you, I would be hurt if she said no.

Thanks in advance!

[bluechocolate]

If you've been talking about marriage and having children A LOT then you should be able to gauge what her feelings will be on living together by how those conversations went. And if you can talk about marriage and children after dating for 2 years I see no reason why you can't talk about living together or why you should be afraid that she'll say no. Does she have conservation views on living together before marriage or something like that?

Regardless, the only way you're going to find out is to ask her.