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Do you feel loved? Do you believe you are loved?
There is yet another discussion about porn going on. At the heart of it seems to be the inability of women to believe that their men actually do love and desire them.
Why?
Is it only women or do men also feel unloved?
If so, why?
How many 'if you *really* loved me, you would X' conditions do you have all set up for some person to have to meet?
How many actual humans have you met were able to fulfil all your 'if you really loved me, you would X' conditions?
(things which should be obvious like 'not sleep with someone else' don't count)
Do you have a list of 'if you *really* loved me you would X' conditions to hand to any potential mate so they'll know what they're expected to do? A job description of sorts.
Do you ever think that maybe saying 'if you really loved me you would (behave exactly as I think you should behave)' is not necessarily a reasonable way to go about life?
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I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good, therefore, that I can do or any kindness that I can show to my fellow creatures, let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
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