OK, I really don't know where to put this at so i decided to put it here.
So heres the thing

My sister is or was dating my manager from work lets call him "Billy," Now Billy and I were friends before him and my sister got together(I am younger than my sister.) Now, my sister got a job where i work and they got together they have been together for a year and a half basically the live together with her daughter and everything. Last Sunday my sister left him because he came home drunk he never comes home drunk it was just once. She left him and hasn't been home since. Now Billy and I have become like brother and sister since they have been together. I don't know if i should be mean to him because my siter left him or be my normal self. Or take my sister side.. I dont know what to do or how to act around him.

Please Help!

I feel like im stuck in the middle and dont know which way to turn

[lost_angel]

ConfusedOne:

Your sister left her boyfriend and he jus so happens to be your friend that's a tough situation to be in and I can see how you feel as if you're stuck in the middle. The thing is, whatever took place between your sister and this guy is between them and it should stay between them. What could possibly come from you being mean to him b/c your sister left him?? If you really consider him to be a friend then you'll be your normal self around him and treat him jus the same. This is your sisters situation not yours. If she wants nothing more to do w/ him that's fine...but that doesn't mean that you have to be mean to him and discontinue the friendship. Your sister made her own decision...and it put you in a pretty tough spot but make your own decision and base it on what you want and not on what your sister wants or on what society says we should do in a situation like this. I guess in the long run of what I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't allow what happened between him and your sister to come inbetween yours and his friendship.