My friend,my other friend that found me on yahoo,is now mad at me cause I wont show him my body.Everytime I talk to him,he answers with a "whatever".I feel so bad and when I dont do what he wants he has a fit.I want to ignore him but that will take him off my list.I even tried making myself invisible and he said " your hiding from me".He keeps getting on and tries to start an argument with me.When I stand up for myself he gets mad.
I sort of understand. It's the other way around for me. Women get really mad at me AFTER I show them my body. You might just be better off without a friend like this.
Patty, this guy is not a friend. Friends don't get mad at you if you don't do what they want. I think this is a bad person, Patty. Too bad if he gets mad if you ignore him. He treats you badly. Take him off your list forever and find a nice friend who will treat you like a lady. This guy, Patty, is a jerk.
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I sort of understand. It's the other way around for me. Women get really mad at me AFTER I show them my body. You might just be better off without a friend like this.
I guess so.
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Patty, this guy is not a friend. Friends don't get mad at you if you don't do what they want. I think this is a bad person, Patty. Too bad if he gets mad if you ignore him. He treats you badly. Take him off your list forever and find a nice friend who will treat you like a lady. This guy, Patty, is a jerk.
Hes taking me off his list now cause hes mad cause he didnt get what he wants.I feel really hurt.
Patty - Maybe next time you meet a guy online who wants to talk to you, you should just tell him up front that you're just looking for platonic friends and that you absolutely will not talk about or do anything sexual. That way, if that's what he's looking for, maybe he'll just move on and not get involved with you.
It hurts to make friends with someone and then find out they just wanted something from you. So maybe if you tell them at the beginning, you won't have to waste your time with jerks anymore. It's worth a try anyway. It's good to just ignore people like that. There are plenty of nice people out there to be "just friends" with. I'm glad you're standing up for yourself. That's something to be proud of.
Please, please, please block him. Chalk this up to a stupid thing and stupid experience. But DO NOT talk to him anymore. He is trying to make you feel guilty when you have NO REASON to feel guilty. He's a SICKO PERVERT GROSS JERK.
He is not your friend.
He is not your friend.
Please do not respond when people you don't know IM you. It's not safe. THEY ARE AFTER SEX.
Be safe!
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Please, please, please block him. Chalk this up to a stupid thing and stupid experience. But DO NOT talk to him anymore. He is trying to make you feel guilty when you have NO REASON to feel guilty. He's a SICKO PERVERT GROSS JERK.
He is not your friend.
He is not your friend.
Please do not respond when people you don't know IM you. It's not safe. THEY ARE AFTER SEX.
Be safe!
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Patty - Maybe next time you meet a guy online who wants to talk to you, you should just tell him up front that you're just looking for platonic friends and that you absolutely will not talk about or do anything sexual. That way, if that's what he's looking for, maybe he'll just move on and not get involved with you.
It hurts to make friends with someone and then find out they just wanted something from you. So maybe if you tell them at the beginning, you won't have to waste your time with jerks anymore. It's worth a try anyway. It's good to just ignore people like that. There are plenty of nice people out there to be "just friends" with. I'm glad you're standing up for yourself. That's something to be proud of.
Thanks for all your helpful advise.I appeciate it.
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