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Old 30th April 2004, 8:22 PM   #1
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A success story to help those who are down 'n out

It was 5 months ago that I suffered the worst relationship loss of my life. I felt worthless and alone. It seemed that I would never in my life find another woman who could be as amazing. I truly thought I had missed my chance at the "one". Let me tell you something...I have now found someone even BETTER.
This woman is so much more wonderful to me, she values and adores me. She doesn't seek what I have to offer, like the other dufus was doing. She doesn't judge me, like the other one did without compassion. I only thought I had the "one", now I know I have the "one"....and I will make sure she feels the same for me.
Everyone...keep your chin up...it will happen for you!
Happy searching to all !!
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Old 1st May 2004, 4:23 PM   #2
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I have now found someone even BETTER

YES!!!! *does a victory dance*

this is what our broken-hearted compadres need to hear: that even though you are feeling pretty damned crappy about a love affair gone wrong, don't give up because someone fine will come along to help you realize a truer definition of the love you're meant to have.

back to my dance of celebration, Roberto ... this is among the happiest news I've heard today!!!

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Old 1st May 2004, 5:26 PM   #3
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"Never, ever give up" - Winston Churchhill
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Old 1st May 2004, 11:17 PM   #4
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Old 3rd May 2004, 4:44 PM   #5
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hmmm maybe some ppl are jus destined to be alone?
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Old 3rd May 2004, 4:54 PM   #6
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hmmm maybe some ppl are jus destined to be alone?
It doesn't have to be that way...I found my special someone thru an online dating service. I was quite active in my search. Don't give up.
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Old 5th May 2004, 1:54 PM   #7
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I find that when you are looking and looking for love and a relationship, this is when you do not find it, but when you are not looking then you find it.
It took me years to find someone that was not abusive and finally I have found the one.

It will happen...
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Old 5th May 2004, 2:20 PM   #8
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I find that when you are looking and looking for love and a relationship, this is when you do not find it, but when you are not looking then you find it.
It took me years to find someone that was not abusive and finally I have found the one.

It will happen...
That may be true alot of times...but I was looking for someone who was looking for me. And hey! there she was! We found each other! wooohooo !!
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Old 1st August 2004, 10:44 PM   #9
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Update

Hey all !!
Things just get better all the time with Christina. We can't, and don't want to, imagine being without each other. We both have been thru difficult relationships and can really appreciate each other. I know she is ready for me, and I for her. This last weekend I purchased the engagement ring. First time in my life that I have done this. Now, I am planning and waiting for the right moment to propose.
I think back to my times of despair this last winter. How I thought I would never again experience joy. Now, I am living the ultimate joy. I look forward to a lifetime bond with this wonderful person who would walk side by side with me.

Guys and gals...if your partner won't or can't have this type of relationship with you then don't worry. There is someone out there who can, and is ready for you.
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Old 2nd August 2004, 5:48 PM   #10
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Congratulations!!! I'm in the same boat myself.
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Old 15th January 2005, 4:19 AM   #11
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woohoo !

Well I'm marrying Christina on February 12. We are so excited and can't wait to start our new life together. All the suffering I've ever experienced does not compare to the joy I feel now. It feels like my own personal miracle to be where I am with her.

A while ago I told her that I don't want to scare her away by smothering her with too much love. She said "omg...I didn't want to scare YOU away by smothering you with too much love!" cute huh?

God knows I love this woman, and I'm gonna prove it to her every day, for the rest of my life.

Now...hmmm....how to write my wedding vows?......................................
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Old 15th January 2005, 4:30 AM   #12
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Congratulations! Wish you both good luck. She is very beautiful! Cannot help with vows. We just said I do.
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Old 15th January 2005, 7:22 AM   #13
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Congratulations!!!!
Thanks for sharing this great news.

Oh, and lovely pic. Christina is not only a great girl, she's also very beautiful!
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Old 15th January 2005, 1:16 PM   #14
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Congrads to you two!! I so glad to read on this post site an nice story, it made me real happy to read that Roberto. Best of luck to you and Christina.....hehe its funny my girl that I am with now has the same name as yours....I hope we have the same luck as you guys.....so far its been a dream for us .....take care
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Old 17th January 2005, 6:22 PM   #15
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Hey Roberto,

Congrats! I am in the same boat myself. I'm in the beginning of something wonderful. I felt that I would never find anyone who was better than my ex, and I did! I truly did....... So I advise everyone to never give up and continue living life at it's best until you find someone or someone finds you!
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