[edcy2k2]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for two years now with only a three month seperation where her parents told her to break up with me and to date someone else. We agreed that she should listen to her parents and we went our seperate ways. But things didn't work out with her and the other guy, and things weren't going to well for me either, so we decided to get back togather in te hope that her parents would like me once again.

But every time she mentions me to her parents they yell at her and become frusturated. We really love each other and want to be together, but the only way is if I can prove to her parents that I am good to their daughter.

I want to know does anyone have any suggestions on how I can get her parents approval once again?

[Sundaymorning]

can we get the reason they dont like you?

[Red Flag Rick]

since i am all about spotting red flags, i read your post and saw some flyin'...

a good set of parents will look at their daughter's beau with a critical eye, and if any guy does not prepare himself for the dating scene and expect this as the norm, he is setting himself up for an unhealthy relationship.

red flag - you haven't learned a male's responsibility and role in a relationship.

it takes more than wanting to be with a girl - there are specific dynamics that a man must understand so that he can build up his value growing up - this value will allow a man to see reality with clarity so that he can begin the process of learning his role in a relationship. and it has everything to do with leadership, but it starts with placing the correct value on yourself so you can see the world in a new perspective.

red flag - you weren't set up internally to know this truth going into a dating experience, and as a result, you have obviously done some things to make mom and dad upset.

red flag - you have conveniently left out any reference to what you did to cause this dilemma - and you know something.

i find it very interesting that you have left out any tidbit that would indicate reasons as to why they may be upset that their daughter is with you.

to me, your post says, "we are in love, i am an angel, and i cannot imagine why her parents, much less anyone, would not consider me a lovable fuzzball."

that's a huge red flag.

i wonder what the heck you have been doing?