can it get any worse?

FLAT_LINER · 7th April 2004, 12:59 AM

ok....prom is may 1st......im 17....the girl that im goin with ive known since november.....we dated for id say 3 months......ok....well last night i found out that she has been lieing to me about her age and her gradefor 6 months ......she told me that she was a sophomore...and that she was 16...she goes to a different school than me.........shes really in 8th grade and shes 14........the thing is is that she had her friends tellin me the same thing so there was no way of knowing.........and i asked her to prom before i found out about this....and also i found out that she has a bf right now......and she wont be back until friday b/c shes in new york getting her prom dress.....and yeah i have no clue as of what to do right now.......can u guys help...

thanks

Tony T · 7th April 2004, 1:02 AM

You don't need to be taking a lying eighth grader with a boyfriend to your prom. When you see her next time, tell her it's off. Find another date. You're better off going with a tot from Romper Room who tells the truth than a lady like this. Somebody needs to teach her to use her tongue more wisely and speak the truth. I'm almost not believing this.

FLAT_LINER · 7th April 2004, 1:08 AM

i know its so crazy man......when i first found this out i started laughing b/c i didnt believe it......i didnt think somethin like this was possible...and that she could keep it from me for so long ya know?............i know i can get better.....but it hurts b/c i really really like her.....i just thought that she would never do this to me

BTW...yeah it was her best friend that told me about all this......and she cannot believe that she did this

priscilla · 7th April 2004, 1:27 AM

Don't go to the prom with her. People break dates all the time. At this point you wouldn't have fun with her anyway. She can return her dress. Find a friend or another interest to the prom instead. You will get over her soon.

FLAT_LINER · 7th April 2004, 3:15 AM

yeah she is so gonna get it when she comes back........i dont have a problem getting another date....its just that if they will have time to get all their stuff for it........i still cannot believe she did that to me....all the **** i did for that girl......im still shocked.....................thanks guys/ladies

7th April 2004, 11:48 AM

leave that little girl alone. She is a liar with 2 strikes against her. Tell her to take her boyfriend with her to her own prom. Little girls upset me with that, Don't they realize how much trouble and embarrasment can come out if it is found out. She could have at least given you a choice in whether you want to deal with her or not, so you don't havet to give her a choice in going to the prom. Besides, she'll have another chance to go one day so her dreams shouldn't be too shattered.

FLAT_LINER · 8th April 2004, 10:33 PM

ok well she comes back tommorow.....ive already got another date for prom and its someone who i know i will have a badass time with im so excited now!...its all good...i just cannot wait to tear her up....when i get done with her she will never do this again i can tell ya that

thanks for all the help guys/ladies

sassygal · 12th April 2004, 2:00 PM

Well, your already off to a rocky start with this chic if she's been lying from the beginning. Your prom is a special event that should not be wasted on someone like this. Find another date for the prom! At this point you will probably not enjoy yourself given the circumstances.

You mentioned that her friend told you about all this. Is she available? If so, take her to the prom. That will shut her up!!!! I know your having second thoughts about breaking the date last minute because your afraid you won't find another date. Hey, I say anything would be better than be miserable at your prom. Good Luck!

MustBeGoingCrazy · 12th April 2004, 2:07 PM

Definately don't take this girl to the prom. It always hurts, badly, to be lied to and decieved by someone you love/loved, but she honestly isn't worth your time.

Obviously, she will say something like "I didn't think you would like me unless you didn't know [insert lies]", but that's a cop out. She needs a dose of reality, and that stuff just doesn't fly. Even worse, she has a boyfriend. I don't think you so much need advice, you just need to hear it from other people.

I, personally, would rather not go to the prom than to waste it on such an individual. You're better off looking for an alternate date, and taking your chances with finding one in time.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but I really hope everything works out for you.

Girlie · 12th April 2004, 5:53 PM

Good luck and glad to hear that you are not taking her.

Fritz · 12th April 2004, 8:08 PM

Glad you found out now and got out of it. I'd be real worried about her folks/laws etc. in this day and age with her being a 14 yr old in 8th grade and you being 17. The last thing one needs is an angry set of parents and a statutory rape charge.