[Davey]

Hi there,

Me and my girlfriend only just split up after a 1 and a half year relationship. We are both students living in the same house. The rest of the tenants have left thus leaving only the two of us. She is already seeing another guy and they are sleeping together. I know that because i can hear them.

My girlfriend initially started the 'we have to talk' bit but it was over some stupid little thing like they always are. I felt that it probably was for the best to split up in general and we were still getting on fine the next day onwards. I felt fine until a few days later she brings back her new man.

We both have seperate rooms but generally would both sleep in hers. But seeing another guy 'taking my place' in these sort of routines has kind of kicked me a bit. And being the only other person living here with them next door isnt doing me any good.

Im not really sure what to do. I reminicsent too much on the memories that weve shared over the time. Thats a problem ive always had. Part of me feels that its killing me and i just want her back, but part of me feels that its just a form of jealousy where someone else has invaded my memories.-I picture her room and the memorable time weve spent in there but now and I know theres another man in there and it feels like a kick into my memories.

What should i do?