LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > Breaking Up, Reconciliation & Coping > Breaks and Breaking Up

Help with the" No Contact Rule"

Register Community Guidelines FAQ Journals Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Breaks and Breaking Up It happens to most everyone at some point in life! Share your experiences!

Old 25th March 2004, 3:09 PM   #1
YssaBoo
Established Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Indiana
Posts: 87
Smile Help with the" No Contact Rule"

I have been reading all the no contact posts in the forums and everyone seems to think that there is never a chance of rekindling a relationship. My ex and I have been apart for about 6 weeks now and I have gotten so many mixed signals that I was getting very confused.

I started the no contact rule about 10 days ago and it does work. I didn't email my ex for a week or call and he finally did. He called again and told called my mom by name and asked for me,but I wasn't home.The next day I left for vacation for a few days and went to see my dad and say bye at work.My ex works there and he just stared and than waved later. Later that day he asked my dad where I was going and talked for awhile.

I don't know how far I should go,or if I should call back.I'm kinda scared I'll push to far.I'm a scorpio and we have a tendency to go overboard with things.Any comments would be greatly appreciated.
YssaBoo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25th March 2004, 3:14 PM   #2
Arabess
Established Member
 
Arabess's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Atlantic Beach, FL
Posts: 3,928
What was the reason for the break-up?

Not ALL relationships are doomed just because someone wants to take a break from them. It seems he is still very much interested in you. You are right....this is when No Contact works. He's probably realized how much he misses you since you aren't talking to him.
Arabess is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25th March 2004, 9:37 PM   #3
YssaBoo
Established Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Indiana
Posts: 87
Arabess, the main reason was because his mom didn't want him to turn out like everyone else in his family. He comes from a VERY disfunctional family and I think also he got scared that he would accidently slip with me.
Thank you for the advice!
~*Lyssa*~
YssaBoo is offline   Reply With Quote
 

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
No Contact Rule Doesn"t Always Work :( DESI Breaks and Breaking Up 7 14th September 2004 12:56 AM
Can the "no contact rule" backfire? TZ Breaks and Breaking Up 15 18th April 2004 10:50 PM
Breaking the "No Contact Rule" and initiate the contact Ganderson Breaks and Breaking Up 11 11th March 2004 3:52 AM
What is this "No Contact" Rule???? Help Anyone!!! Nexa Second Chances 15 15th January 2004 8:42 AM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 12:19 AM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2009 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.