Pussy Galore? Or just a bad talker?

Renny_H · 23rd March 2004, 9:53 AM

Alright, listen to this:

Been chasing after a girl at school for 7 weeks, we’ve just met, okay?

But I backed off because she never really asked me any questions. It was all me keeping the conversation going.

She’s quite a popular, attractive girl, so naturally I’m among many competitors. But since backing off to see if she was interested in chasing me, everything became uncomfortable. I said nothing more, and we would walk by each other without a word.

I didn’t know if she hated me for ignoring her, or if she just wasn’t interested in me. So I send her an email, asking whether she knew I had feelings for her, that I thought she didn’t like me now for some reason.

She emailed me back, totally sympathetic, saying she liked me, but not like-liked me, and thought I wasn’t around enough.

Rubbish. She thinks I’m mysterious. She NEVER asks me questions. I’m the only one asking her things.

How can things change if she don’t change?

She acts like a lesbian, like Pussy Galore.

FreeMe · 23rd March 2004, 10:00 AM

I'm assuming that "not like-liking you" means that she's not interested in you as a boyfriend. Sounds like she's not interested enough to really care about your life. I have two pieces of advice:

Forget about her and find someone else

Don't assume women are lesbians just because they're not interested in YOU

overseas2004 · 23rd March 2004, 10:06 AM

Like no wonder she doesn't like you ... you are a creep. Looks like she saved herself some heartache.

Renny_H · 23rd March 2004, 10:13 AM

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Originally posted by overseas2004
Like no wonder she doesn't like you ... you are a creep. Looks like she saved herself some heartache.

How exactly am I a creep? You know nothing. You should ask more questions before you judge. Perhaps you too are a lesbian.

Arabess · 23rd March 2004, 10:16 AM

Why would you assume she is a lesbian just because she doesn't have the same kind of feelings for you that you have for her? That is making the assumption all females should be attracted to you. Regardless of ANY attributes you may have....not every person of the opposite sex is going to be interested. That's a ludicrous notion!

You say you have feelings for her.....yet are obviously disrespecting her by pinning names on her. Maybe it's this part of your personality which she is finding to be such a turn off.

Look internally....and work on how you respond to people. It may not help you in this particular relationship, but may salvage the next one.

overseas2004 · 23rd March 2004, 11:12 AM

And besides being a creep you are also not alltogether sane. Sorry to dissapoint you that I am not a lesbian and neither is your "dream girl" just because she found you inadequate. hahaha

Renny_H · 23rd March 2004, 6:48 PM

Geez, overseas, you don't know my humour.

But this girl I like, I be nice to her, okay, but she brushes off every single guy. It messes with us. Do I think I'm all-powerfully attractive, that this shouldn't be happening to me? Well, slightly, okay, I'll be honest. I judge her on her attributes and she doesn't even get to know me. Isn't that shallow though? Looking at me then pissing off?

Come on, we haven't clicked cos she won't talk. I'm not trying to force her; she's just in this world, this WEIRD world sometimes. I see it in her eyes. She looks so sad, you know? That's attractive to me. Everything is so complicated when nothing is said.

dyermaker · 23rd March 2004, 8:17 PM

Wait, she's not attracted to you? Maybe you're gay.

Renny_H · 24th March 2004, 10:45 AM

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Originally posted by dyermaker
Wait, she's not attracted to you? Maybe you're gay.

I resemble John Travolta in Grease, but just cos I'm pretty, don't mean I'm gay. I just take care of myself, my appearance. And I can do a little dance too.