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Old 22nd March 2004, 12:55 AM   #1
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feelings have faded
ive been going out wtih my girlfrend for a weeek and realized that i dont like her nemore..but i feel really bad breaking it off with her because every guys shes come across just leaves..and i dont want her to feel that way..feel that love is just hopeless for her...can neone give me some tips on how to end it? or should i stick around to verify my feelings for her again? thanx for reading.
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Old 22nd March 2004, 2:12 AM   #2
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you should end it properly and like a man. take her out to a public place, (breakfast is often good) explain your feelings, calmly, kindly, and firmly, and give her a going away gift. let her get with her life and find a guy who is not as ambivalwnt about her as you are. she desreves a guy who is crazy about her. if you are actually a good guy, do the right thing here.
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Old 22nd March 2004, 11:54 AM   #3
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a week
One week? Thats it? And your feelings faded? And she was like your girlfriend? Whatever.....

hopefully both of you will realize you just had sex.
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Old 22nd March 2004, 3:51 PM   #4
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A week?!

You weren't boyfriend and girlfriend. You were dating. IF that.
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Old 22nd March 2004, 4:20 PM   #5
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I know you feel bad...
But, I was with my boyfriend/fiance for 8 years!!! He left me with no closure.
The pain I am feeling is beyond horrible!!
Be glad yours was only 1 week!!!
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Old 22nd March 2004, 7:56 PM   #6
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In and out of love in a week... wowsers, that should be like some Olympic record!

Tell her straight out you are not interested in her as a girlfriend. Honesty works wonders.

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