Hi,

I don't know if i can really get an opinion on this because it may seem too general...
the thing is, i'm embarassed with my breast size. i'm a petite young woman ( very fit) so i barely have any fat on me, that explains my lack of an ample bust. i'm not iron board flat, but i'm a small b cup, and i feel self conscious about it, esp when in bed with my significant other. he has always told me that he has never cared about breast size.. but then sometimes when he sees a female with small breasts
he'll come out and say, "man, she has no tits"!.. that makes me feel like he has been lying to me about his lack of concern with chest size.. and i also wonder if he feels like i'm too small seeing as how i'm the same size as most the women he points out. i'm just embarassed to mention it to him. it's the same for women, guys.. you worry about your penis size.. we worry about our breasts.
and in the bedroom.. he is constantly trying to touch my chest.. i don't see why..
i guess i just needed somewhere to vent. it would be nice to hear that some guys actually don't mind small breasted chics. :P

thanks

[UCFKevin]

I don't like them too big. I think girls with smaller breasts are just as gorgeous as girls with bigger ones.

Sometimes it's cute as all hell.

[Girlie]

First of all, regardless of what men do and don't like, you have nothing to be embarressed about. You gotta learn to be comfortable with what you've been given, regardless of what a man thinks. I know that's easier said than done.
As far as men, I think it varies. Everybody tends to have preferences in some case or another, and some men probably care more about breasts than others. Take it from a petite young woman with ample breasts though...it's over-rated, and I often feel just as self-conscious about having these things as others probably do about not having as much.
Does your bf know that you're self-conscious about this issue? If so, his comments are insensitive. If not, you should really tell him how you feel. Either way, if those comments bother you, tell him to please watch it. If my bf were commenting on other women's breasts when he was with me, I think I'd be a little annoyed.

[monkey00]

i dig average or slightly smaller than average sized. cute as hell.

the girls with those big breasts or larger, for some reason im not into those.

but the truth is, each guy's taste is different. just dont worry about it too much and be happy with yourself.

My ex-girlfriend was a very fit 34b and she absolutely rocked my world......small to medium is way sexy.

[yes]

i'd worry about his comments, too. perhaps say something like ... "just like me?" next time he point out somebody and says that she's flat... he may well be unaware of your insecurity regarding this.

i've personally gotten compliments that said "... not too big, not too small ... " - so definitely guys don't necessarily prefer big.

good luck,
-yes

[longlegzs80]

Man, I wish I was a b cup. I am a 36 A and I have never had a complaint from a guy, so just accept it that you have smaller breasts. I think mine are kinda cute. But I do feel like you too where I am self conscious. What you do is be confident that you have got the bod and the nice little perky breasts and any man will fall for you.

I am still jelous that you have a b and I can't even get past the 36 A stage.

[sonofhud2]

What do you mean by "does it matter"?

Does it matter for choosing someone to have a romantic relationship with?
Does it matter for pickin up someone for the evening at the club?

I'm gonna go with a no. There are certain racks that I find more attractive because of my own tastes, but I'm not gonna not go out with a gal because her boobs aren't attractive to me than another girl. Just have to find something else about her that is attractive to me.

Would you hold it against a guy if his penis wasn't over 6" long?

[reasontosigh]

Would you hold it against a guy if his penis wasn't over 6" long?

I'd be more likely to hold his penis against me!

[faux]

Originally posted by guest
...it would be nice to hear that some guys actually don't mind small breasted chics. :P

thanks

I am very fond of a girl who is an "A" cup at the moment. I think she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. If that helps any.

[BabyBaby]

Don't worry too much!! He wants YOU!!! Your smile, your kiss, your soul and your BODY!!! As for the comment he made, think it another way, he might want to make you feel better? Maybe he knows you are too concern about yr breasts' size and he wanna let you know that there are many more women with smaller breasts?
Don't worry honey.

[Dug]

I had a relationship with a woman who had one "B" cup and the other was a "C". I am told this is kinda common and is relative to which arm or hand you favor.....but she was extremely self-conscious of her appearance. Fortunately, a woman are alot more than a pair of boobs to the man who Loves her.

[corythosaurus]

To some men it matters. To some it doesn't.

Do physical appearances matter to you? Baldness, hairiness, height, weight, fitness, facial hair, penis size?

Everyone is different and everyone has differences in what they are attracted too.

Sounds to me like your boyfriend is a tad bit immature and a little insensitive. Time maybe to get a "manfriend".

[fredrolin]

As long as you are willing to let me fondle them, I am happy with any size.

[RedneckRomeo]

I love the B sizes on most women, A's go good with certain bodies, and so do some C's. I dont like it when the breasts don't fit with their body, and for most, overly huge breasts don't go well with their bodies, so that doesn't appear attractive. I'm not certain, but I believe the girl I'm interested in has a B chest, and it looks awesome on her.