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Old 17th March 2004, 5:44 PM   #1
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do guys think about stuff and maul stuff over?

Like females do? I do nothing but think about my guy friend. When I wake up, when I go to sleep, in the bathtub. We've spent sooo much time together. Does he think about it too? Or are we just really that different and he doesn't give a crap?
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Old 17th March 2004, 5:52 PM   #2
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he is probably thinking whats for breakfast...mmmm....a snack?.......mmmmm..whats for lunch?.....mmmmmm...... i wonder what pebbles had for lunch?..... whats for dinner?
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Old 17th March 2004, 5:52 PM   #3
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We think about you in the bathtub.



You're kidding right?

IMHO, most guys do not dwell on thoughts "like females do." Obviously you must know this also to have made the distinction in asking your question.
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Old 17th March 2004, 5:57 PM   #4
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Re: do guys think about stuff and maul stuff over?

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do guys think about stuff and maul stuff over?
Oh yeah...I've mauled a few woman in my time.

Love to think about that whenever I can actually....
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Old 17th March 2004, 6:12 PM   #5
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ROTFL, Wideawake!

Some day, find the Dave Barry book Dave Barry's Guide to Guys. He tells you what guys think about. According to him, not much - but he says it much funnier than I did.
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Old 17th March 2004, 6:18 PM   #6
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I'm surprised...

if guys do not think about stuff and maul stuff over, how come a guy friend, all he did was think about a girl he lost. What he did right or wrong, etc.

So are you guys playing it safe and just saying you don't? Or is he a sissy?

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Old 17th March 2004, 6:44 PM   #7
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Pebbles, there is no one rule for all guys or all women. Everybody is different. Some people move on quickly, some people dwell on their losses. It doesn't matter what their gender.
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Old 17th March 2004, 8:16 PM   #8
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"mull"--to maul is to injure

Anyways, what an awful question. Perhaps, and alarmingly to me, I'm in the minority, but I'm a chronic overthinker. I'm not fond of baths, I'm actually kind of claustrophobic, and laying in a pool of my own water seems counterproductive to the goal of getting clean, so I don't opt for long bathing sessions. But I'll lay down and think about things for hours, I moll, I ponder, I worry, and I'm not a sissy.

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Old 17th March 2004, 8:19 PM   #9
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"moll"--to maul is to injure

Well, actually, it's 'mull'. "Moll" is the nickname for my cat or a nickname for a gangster's gf.
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Old 17th March 2004, 8:30 PM   #10
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Moi, I hit the "u" key, it must have been my moll that changed it after the fact
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Old 17th March 2004, 8:33 PM   #11
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Riiiiiiiiigggggghhhhhhhhtttttt!
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Old 17th March 2004, 8:35 PM   #12
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*mauls you*
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Old 17th March 2004, 9:04 PM   #13
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dyer, I am not surprised to hear that you are a thinker.

My guy thinks sometimes. But lots of the time I have come to realise that when I ask what he's thinking about and he says "nothing" , he REALLY means nothing!
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Old 17th March 2004, 11:13 PM   #14
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Yeah, I have found most guys I have known dont think excessivly about things like that. when its done its done.
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Old 17th March 2004, 11:23 PM   #15
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Yeah, I have found most guys I have known dont think excessivly about things like that.
How on Earth do you have the capability to make such findings?
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