Like females do? I do nothing but think about my guy friend. When I wake up, when I go to sleep, in the bathtub. We've spent sooo much time together. Does he think about it too? Or are we just really that different and he doesn't give a crap?
he is probably thinking whats for breakfast...mmmm....a snack?.......mmmmm..whats for lunch?.....mmmmmm...... i wonder what pebbles had for lunch?..... whats for dinner?
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Some day, find the Dave Barry book Dave Barry's Guide to Guys. He tells you what guys think about. According to him, not much - but he says it much funnier than I did.
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if guys do not think about stuff and maul stuff over, how come a guy friend, all he did was think about a girl he lost. What he did right or wrong, etc.
So are you guys playing it safe and just saying you don't? Or is he a sissy?
Last edited by Pebbles59; 17th March 2004 at 6:20 PM..
Pebbles, there is no one rule for all guys or all women. Everybody is different. Some people move on quickly, some people dwell on their losses. It doesn't matter what their gender.
Anyways, what an awful question. Perhaps, and alarmingly to me, I'm in the minority, but I'm a chronic overthinker. I'm not fond of baths, I'm actually kind of claustrophobic, and laying in a pool of my own water seems counterproductive to the goal of getting clean, so I don't opt for long bathing sessions. But I'll lay down and think about things for hours, I moll, I ponder, I worry, and I'm not a sissy.
Last edited by dyermaker; 17th March 2004 at 8:29 PM..
dyer, I am not surprised to hear that you are a thinker.
My guy thinks sometimes. But lots of the time I have come to realise that when I ask what he's thinking about and he says "nothing" , he REALLY means nothing!
Yeah, I have found most guys I have known dont think excessivly about things like that. when its done its done.
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