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Old 15th March 2004, 12:01 AM   #1
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any suggestions from anyone on this??

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Two guys going for the same girl, me being one of those guys, and the other guy is by no means my friend at all.

At this point i think hate this other guy.

Any suggestions on how i can win this battle.
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Old 15th March 2004, 12:04 AM   #2
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1. Food poisoning
2. Giving us more information
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Old 15th March 2004, 11:09 AM   #3
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First off, don't try competiting with this guy. There are women out there that love this kinda affection. The more guys the merrier. Just be honest and true with her. Tell her that you aren't into this competition and that you would like to have more with her. But you do need to give us more information. Your age, situation, etc..
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Old 15th March 2004, 1:37 PM   #4
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Well,
First of all, do you think this girl likes you? Cause if she does then I would keep trying for her, but if you don't think she likes you then I guess it isn't worth trying. You should show her little things that she will understand you do like her.
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Old 15th March 2004, 1:57 PM   #5
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hmm

clearly display your interest in her (to her!) and then back off. let her choose you or the other guy.

if i had two guys going after me... all other things equal, the one who's trying less hard would have the upper hand.

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Old 15th March 2004, 2:44 PM   #6
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I would go for the girl if your not worried about this other guys feelings.
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Old 18th March 2004, 8:40 AM   #7
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Give up. If she is interested in someone you hate you don't want her. Do you get my point? I think I am making sense here. Dump her like a sack of potatoes.
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