Arg... I haven't actually posted an original on loveshack in forever, and I wanted to try out my new avatar. So...
I read UFCKevin's letter. I hope you hear something. Silence is an answer if you hear nothing back, but please make sure you are clear if you really love her.
I recently wrote my last ditch opportunity note as well, originally it was a 7 page letter explaining, but I thought, I love you should be enough if it's meant to be. It went like this:
I love you and miss you.
Call me if you feel the same,
otherwise take good care.
Silence is not always golden. In fact, sometimes it's loud and clear. But I personally, had to make a last ditch, I'm a fool, down on my hands and knees plea to finally get out of the rut I built. It is quite humling. I just wish it worked out more. History tells me though, unanswered prayers are indeed blessings.
Best of luck Kevin and to everyone else that wished for second chances.
Neonink...you and Kevin are TOO KIND! This is an excerpt from MY 'Last Ditch' effort!!! No wonder I'm single......LMAO!
PS: LOVE THE AVATAR!!!!
Maybe somewhere in your heart, you did or do really love me. I just don't know....nor do I care anymore.
I'm just gonna let it go at this point. I don't even want to go into all the cruel things you did to me while declaring I was the "love of your life". You aren't some nice guy who turned into an *********. You are an ********* who tricked me into believing you were something special. I fit what you needed at that point of your life....you never gave a rats a$$ what I might have needed. And NO...it wasn't a sexual need. Unlike yourself, I can get laid anytime I want to....from some of America's finest. I don't need you for that. What I needed...was you to keep one f*cking promise you ever made to me. And you didn't.......
The truth is....I don't want to be your girlfriend OR your friend. I don't want anything further to do with you.....because all you've done is brought me misery.
You are a f*cked up memory.....which will faid with time. I am not in love with you any longer.....and can't remember why I ever was.
Arabess, you are one bad a$$ chick! Well, as long as you feel better. Thanks.
I don't know why I sent it. I pretty much knew the answer. I think there is some joy to finally hitting rock bottom, pulling out all the stops, going for it, and getting an immediate answer. Then walking away pulling yourself up by the bootstraps.
Just interested in what did sending this letter do for you ? did he respond ? did u want to hurt him or something ? I can understand letters asking for another chance but these letters confuse me. Yes you have been hurt badly by this person - but does letting him know achieve anything - if he is an a$$$hole then it wouldnt affect him would it ?
I have felt anger towards my ex and a desire to give it to her but I see no benefit for me in doing so. Just interested in your motivation for this.
So, here it is: No excuses, no apologies, I'll just be the ******* that you want me to be.
At least you didn't call me a f*ckerSh*t....... maybe that's next......
and it WAS....and I STILL call him that!
Caretoomuch,
I sent the letter.....wait...that was an email in the middle of a WAR...because I meant what I said and he deserved to hear it. I do not feel guilty for sending it. The story behind it gave me every right. My motivation was to let him know how I felt.
I loved him more than I ever loved anyone in my life.....and may never love anyone like that again. But I'd gnaw off my tongue.....before I would admit that to him. He doesn't deserve to hear it.
So funny I just pick my screennames out of the dictionary so I was quite surprised to see someone else with that name. Maybe we both landed on the same page..
When Medea realized her relationship with Jason (Of Argonauts Fame) was over, she took the noble way out, and didn't make any other contact or attempt at grovelling.
She then killed his new lover, and both of their children.
Different strokes for different folks. People just have to handle their situations the way they choose to, or in a fashion that gives them satisfaction. I, however, side with you in how to go about things. I have no desire to "slam" my ex, even though I do not agree with what she has done, or the fashion in which she has. If things don't work out - I think she will realize the loss, and I don't feel like fueling the fire that makes her think she is right with those type of messages. Just me, just like it is up to all who post here to handle their affairs as they see fit. Best of luck to all.!!
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Those last ditch pleas
Well, as long as you feel better. Thanks.
Silly me I'm so naive! Hehe
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