Cheating, Flirting, and JealousyBeing unfaithful to your significant other or suspect them of the same? Can't stand the way they flirt? Jealous? Discuss your experiences here.
You cannot change how he/she feels. As an individual he/she has the right to feel how he/she wants. So far as friends go, you may want to point out that trust and respect are necessary things in a friendship.
I wouldn't be surprised if he/she replied "then there is no friendship."
every friendship needs respect, trust and some form of caring or loving. why is everyone saying walk away? how bout working on it? talking to her why she thinks of you and your friendship/ relationship in that way. you dont have to walk away.
Originally posted by jenny
you can't. let this one go.
What do u mean by that Jenny?
UCFKevin, I sent her that message because those are importnat point in any relationship. So I wanted to know how she felt about that towards me. I am going to sit down and talk to her about it and try work on it. But not so that we can get back together just to create peace I guess. But i do not want us to end up defending ourselfs and talk about specific issues.
Most definitely you are wasting your time. The kind of cosmic, peace-creating, non-specific dialogue you seek is not going to happen through text messages...especially not after what you did. (We all heard about it, by the way.) Just move on, and make sure you don't pull that stunt again or you aren't going to have any girlfriends left.
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