Little Input needed please:


I been hooking up with this girl for about 3 months,

She told me she is not ready for a relationship, about a month ago b/c she was with a guy for 3 years.... and doesn't want anything serious right now- but she told me she thinks we will eventually become offical/serious.. (a month ago)

then she told me about a week ago she likes me a lot, and likes me even more each time we hang out, then one day she says, "you know - your suppose to go to parties to meet new people, but i keep coming back with the same guy (refering to me), she says its a compliment/god thing"

We get in a few little arguements but we talk things over.. mostly with me getting mad at her for something little...... but things are good - i feel....and she says the same thing

We just recently had sex with each other this past week.... and she told me earlier she doesn't sleep with someone unless she is semi-exclusive or exclusive...


What do you think about these little things - any comments?

[Reckless]

Sounds like you did the right thing by not putting too much pressure on her to commit and it's paying off as she's becomes more and more attached to you. You say you manage to talk things through so if you really want to know how she feels about you or get some reassurances you're going to have to ask her.

You might like to ask what 'semi exclusive' actually means too (I was pretty curious about that myself, since 'exclusive' is barring all but one, it's like being a little bit pregnant or 50% dead, you either are or you're not... but that's neither here nor there...). Talk to her, no one here can tell you for sure where she's at at the moment, but it looks good to me.

Well I think semi-exclusive is the step right before it, and I would ask her what it means but this was month ago.

Just bringing up things...

but people are refering to us as BF/GF well with me they are.... and other people are asking are we offical yet "as bf and gf"

how do you know that your in a relationship? and exclusive? is it a given or is it mutually spoken...

she knows i dont date anyone else...


what ya gents/ladies think?

[morrigan]

Tell her honestly that you only want to date her, and ask her if she wants to only date you. Just because you two are involved with eachother doesn't mean you're going to get all mushy, move in together or dream about weddings. It just means you enjoy being wih eachother and respect the other person. Take your time and enjoy yourselves.