[lattimershotgun]

K well many of you know my story. I am doing better now and i havent tlaked to my ex in weeks. I feel good now that i told her i cant just be freinds. ever since then we havent tlaked at all but i feel a great agony lifted from my chest. I do miss her still though from time to time, so i was going ot send her a text message today saying happy V Day. but i decided agasint it, i figured it woudl jsut make her laugh, or she woudl get pissed about it. you guys agree that sending that to my ex would have been a dumb idea?

[Darkangelism]

Yes, u made the right decision.

[lattimershotgun]

so this is the concesenses

[Misty2004]

I think that if you had sent it to her, you would not have received the response, if any, that you were expecting from her.

And any contact, or no contact, after you had sent it, would have hurt you more, and would have set you back.

so continue with your healing.
You're on the right road.

[dario]

I must admit that I failed on V.day to hold back. Despite the torment of the past. In a more sage form of mind I sent some roses with a note: From a Friend. I just wanted to truly open the doors up for communication...and, I know, there is a lack of a reply....but it betters me in having sent them for some reason. To have done it. There is no such thing as final resolution and leaving with questions is painful....but that's just the way it is sometimes.