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Old 14th February 2004, 6:36 PM   #1
CaptainBirdseye
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Help needed with potential new relationship

I'd like some advice please.

I have been single for over a year now, I've been comfortable with this decision. I had a very bad experience a year back and felt I needed time on my own.

My story is as follows:
I met a girl over the internet in the least likely place. We got on like a house on fire and remained great friends.
She had a boyfriend at the time but that wasn't going well. In fact she decided a long time before she met me that he wasn't right for her.
I was there for her to cheer her up and offer soem advice.

Now here comes the complex part.
We did flirt like mad over the net but I always assumed that she was joking with me. Until one day I got an email saying that she really likes me.
I was pleased to find out I really like her too

We agreed to meet in person but keep it neutral (i.e no kissing, touching or sleeping together) so that we didn't go too fast.
So we met and had a great time, we flirted a bit and got on amazingly.

After we met she became a little distant, but I suspect it was her time of the month.
This went on a few days so I rang her to make sure she was ok. That night she was back but not as flirty with me.
She said she was in a good mood because she had sex that morning, I felt a little rejected but we aren't dating yet.

I think she may have been joking I dunno.
She likes to show her ass off on her internet camera to other blokes.

I want to be with her and I think she wants to be with me, but I'm just not sure.
If theres anything else you need to know, please just ask (and ask anything).

Confused
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Old 14th February 2004, 8:09 PM   #2
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Hard to say, I have been in a similar situation and the girl really did sleep with someone else, so you never know.
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Old 14th February 2004, 8:21 PM   #3
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She probably did, but I'm ok with that.
I am sure she'd be faithfull when/if we get together.
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Old 17th February 2004, 9:23 AM   #4
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Please delete this topic.
I have made up my mind and she isn't right for me.
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