[LikkleMissConfused]

In this past year I have lost two stones in weight since I broke up with my abusive ex partner. The thing is since I lost the weight, in the summer I was going out to town to the bars and clubs wearing short mini skirts because they were in fashion and my girlfriend were constantly bugging me to wear the skirts as I think they wanted to help me build my confidence up.

So I did and you know what! It felt great! I have never been able to wear clothes like that. From a size 14 I am now a size 8. I’m a very petite frae anyway so it suits me.

The only thing is my ex has been in touch with me recently not that I really want to speak to him and not that I take too much notice of what he says. But he said he has been told I have become a right slapper going round town in short skirts dancing like a tart etc etc.

Why is it that guys label girls for wearing short skirts and feeling comfortable in flirting and being attractive eventhough that most of the men ask they girlfriends to wear short skirts and high heels.

Why do I get labelled. I dance I flirt but nobody touches me unless I want them too. I am too shy and have too much self respect so why? And why does it make me feel so low.