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Old 6th February 2004, 2:53 AM   #1
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Need suggestions please

I posted this before but i only got one response (thanks Abress), but anyways.....i am planning a romantic evening for my guy in two weeks. Im getting a hotel room. I have a few things planned...like dinner, candlelight bath, desert , but i was wondering if any of you have any other suggestions of romatic things i can do for him. This has to be a night to remember b/c he is leaving (being restationed) in alaska (im in pa) for the next three years and he is gettign deployed overseas so i know i wont see him for awhile. I just want to do something that he vant forget and can think about while he is defending our country so he knows he has someone at home who loves him. So any suggestions??? Id appreciate it.....
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Old 6th February 2004, 4:16 AM   #2
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I don't know how committed your relationship is, or how long you've been together,or how old you are. I take that you probably would not see him very often over the next 3 years that's a long time. Your love will surely stand the test of time.
But if you are truely in love and your sure he feels the same. Propose it's leap year. A year in which women can propose. Have a 3 year engagement and plan for your wedding when he gets back.
Hey it's an idea. I'm just excited because I'm going to do it.
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Old 6th February 2004, 5:28 AM   #3
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Well your talking romance, candles, bath, ........how about sitting him in a chair blind folded and slightly handcuffed or bound. Tickle him with feathers, feed him fresh strawberries dipped in chocolate, give him a massage.......and then......well.....you fill in the blank. The main objective is to tease him and tell him he can not unleash until you say so....make him sweat... or leave him leashed up...whichever YOU prefer...lol...being dominant can be fun and romantic too. He won't forget an evening like this.

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Old 6th February 2004, 5:37 AM   #4
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One more thing.......Make a cassette tape of poetry for him.....or tell him how much you love him in the tape....maybe sing him a silly love song! Hide it in his suitcase, so he will have something to cherish while he is away, it would make a really nice suprise.

Hide little love notes in his pockets of his packed clothes.

just a thought

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Old 6th February 2004, 6:12 AM   #5
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Hey thanks for the ideas..

I would love to purpose to him but unfortunatly i dont think its the right time....he just got out of a marraige and i dont want him to jump back into anything. And another thing he was engaged before(broke it off) and later he got married and both times the girl asked him and he has expressed to me that for once he would like to do it instead.....but i really wish we were engaged. GREAT idea though......

I love the teasing him idea....ill defiantly have to work something out with that.....im usually submissive in bed and so i think that it would be a big change if i were to be dominate.

I wish i could write loves notes and put them in his clothes but he isnt leaving right after our night together....he has to go back up to the base and then he leaves two weeks after that....unfortuanlty i leave 3 days after that to stay with my dad in GA.

I have written some poems to him (about him) in a book since the last time we saw each other which was three weeks ago.....do you think i should give it to him?

if anyone else has any suggestions.....please let me know....i want this to be perfect...becasue i truely love him with all my heart and i want to SHOW him that not just tell him.
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Old 6th February 2004, 11:19 PM   #6
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geez no more reponses isnt there any romatics on here Just kidding......but i do need some ideas if you got some so throw them my way (just dont hit me ) HAHA
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